Travis and I officially own a House!!!!!
This is very exciting news, so I had to write a little... even though I am very tired, and it has been a long (though very good and lots of fun) day... plus I was a little afraid of easyjournal since what happened last time I posted. Even though my post did get where it needed to be, it took about 400 error messages, and some frantic "what the sh*t is wrong with my journal" moments. I'm a little attached to this thing because of all the memories. I've been writing here for since the end of 2002! It's nice to be able to go back and see what I was doing at this time two years ago. But anyway! I obviously got over my weariness, and here I am.
So, my day. Started off cranky, because of being very tired (not as much sleep as I would have liked this week), and when I headed into work I found out some bad news that one of my coworkers had gotten her apartment broken into and a bunch of money stolen from her and her husband. So that was upsetting because she is a good friend of mine, and she was obviously very freaked out and distraught. Plus, it was so quiet in the office again. By 11-12ish, more people were getting in, and there was actually some activity... but since I had taken a halfday for the closing today, that was a bit of too little too late for me.
Around 12:30 I left and took a leisurely walk to the train station, rode out to Secane and had Trav pick me up. We headed to out new place for the final walk through, then off to the title company to sign all the final mortgage papers, transfer papers, etc. Then we got the keys, and we are officially homeowners!!
And we have to have lots of kids, because I think we signed away at least our first three... ;-)
No, it wasn't really that bad. After that we headed over to Rochelle & Pat's new apartment, which they just moved into today... to help them out with any moving stuff. Ro and I headed out to pick up some stuff they needed... bedding for the guest bed mostly... and got some sushi for dinner. The boys hung out and ... uh... drank. Lol. I'm sure they did something else in there too. Watch the Simpson for example. But we all had a good time. Now we are back at the apartment for some much needed rest.
Trav is already in bed, as he has to get up early tomorrow for camping with his grandfather and his grandfather's handicap boy scout troop. I'm sure he will have a nice time (his grandfather, the imfamous Willy, and him get along GREAT)... but it will be a long weekend for him nonetheless. I was a little too wired and excited to just head to bed. When we got in the car to come home, Travis just looked at me and says, "we have a house"... and it was such a cool feeling! But I think now it is time for me to say goodnight. I'm having trouble keeping my eyes open, which certainly makes it hard to type.


when boss is away, megan can play.

today is another quiet day in the office. my boss and his wife are out, and the pres and his wife are out. and the business manager won't be in for another hour or two. it is quiet. contrary to the title... its not really play time. but none of my current projects are on strict time restraints, so at least I get to daudle a little. take my time, relax and get things done at a much more leisurely pace then normal. rather nice.

that was my favorite part of Arizona... no schedule. i didn't have to wear a watch. when we wanted to do something, we did it. if we wanted to do it later, then when we finally did come around to being in the mood for it, that would be when we did it... not just at a certain time. i like having the opportunity to be leisurely. i'm all for that jimmy buffett lifestyle.

so we have all the pre-closing things done, that need to be done by us for our house. so i am definitely feeling that weight off my shoulders. but i think this weekend, when all is said and done, i will be more relaxed then I have been for the past 3 or 4 months. then we can worry about fixing the house up the way we want it to be for our move in... but the worst will be over, that will actually be enjoyable. it will be ours!

after that i can find new things to stress about... ;-) job, wedding planning, etc. there will always be something else to stress about. "take the good with the bad, the smile with the sad" but for the time, at least, i am going to relish in the fact that Travis and I (as of friday) will have our first house. that we have a place to call our very own, a place that we can do what we want to, and that we don't have to leave unless we feel like it. we found a very big obstacle, and we did what we needed to do to get through it. i am a happy girl.


AZ today!!!!!

So excited about going to Arizona today... fun and sun, swimming and hopefully tons of sleep! I'm sure i will have plenty to write about upon my return (Sunday). Been so busy the past week or so. Last minute house stuff (closing on the 29th)... insurance, finalizing mortgage stuff, and the like. Plus out to Pittsburgh this past weekend, and now I am so sore from moving tons of furniture. Ouch. Plus my car had to go and die at the end of the weekend, which kind of put a damper on things. Thankfully we made it all the way back to Philadelphia first!! Plus, Ro and Pat were there to help us out, so that was a huge relief. And now we have all this great furniture in storage, just waiting to be moved into our first house!

Today I have a nice half day... then I have to run to the getto car repair shop in Philly where my car is being repaired... fight with them about ridiculous prices, and hopefully get out of there in my car, with a shirt still on my back... drive to Willy's, to meet Trav... then on to the airport, and off to sunny Arizona! I need this!


do you like pina coladas?

I really love this song... and the story behind it is amusing to.
First the lyrics, then the story, then my own input:

Escape (The Pina Colada Song)
By Rupert Holmes

I was tired of my lady, we'd been together too long.
Like a worn-out recording, of a favorite song.
So while she lay there sleeping, I read the paper in bed.
And in the personals column, there was this letter I read:

"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
I'm the lady you've looked for, write to me, and escape."

I didn't think about my lady, I know that sounds kind of mean.
But me and my old lady, had fallen into the same old dull routine.
So I wrote to the paper, took out a personal ad.
And though I'm nobody's poet, I thought it wasn't half-bad.

"Yes, I like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne.
I've got to meet you by tomorrow noon, and cut through all this red tape.
At a bar called O'Malley's, where we'll plan our escape."

So I waited with high hopes, then she walked in the place.
I knew her smile in an instant, I knew the curve of her face.
It was my own lovely lady, and she said, "Oh, it's you."
And we laughed for a moment, and I said, "I never knew"...

"That you liked Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
And the feel of the ocean, and the taste of champagne.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape."

"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
And the feel of the ocean, and the taste of champagne.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape."

"Rupert Holmes has written several Broadway plays, including Say Goodnight, Gracie and The Mystery Of Edwin Drood. He has written songs that have been performed by Barbra Streisand, Judy Collins, and Britney Spears. He created a television series called Remember WENN and wrote a novel called Where The Truth Lies. His works have won Tonys, Emmys, and Edgars. Despite all this, he is best known for this song. Says Rupert, "I have a feeling that if I saved an entire orphanage from a fire and carried the last child out on my shoulders, as I stood there charred and smoking, they'd say, 'Aren't you the guy who wrote The Pina Colada Song?' It's tough when you have this one thing that pulls focus from all these other things that you've done, yet every songwriter lives to have a song that most everybody knows." This began as a song called "People Need Other People," which Rupert wrote years earlier for his own amusement. For his 5th album, he needed an uptempo song to balance out the ballads, so he decided to record this. Rupert describes how they recorded it: "The drummer, Leo Adamian, suggested we have 2 drummers on the session because it was an interesting beat that was hard to pull off with one drummer alone. We got the second drummer and we did one take of the tune. It had some very interesting chord changes and changed key several times, and I'm singing away this lyric, 'people need other people.' We go in to hear back the first take and we listen to the cut, and I say 'you know, we can definitely do better than this,' and I look and I see that the second drummer was unconscious from having too much fun. We were able to wake him up and get him into a taxi, and that was that, we weren't going to record any more of that track. I figured I'd just put the song away - I wasn't that crazy about the lyric anyway. Then I found that I really desperately needed another uptempo song on the album and the budget was getting low and I wasn't sure what to do. That's when we did something that now is pretty commonplace but was pretty unusual at the time - we did a very primitive version of sampling. I found there were 16 bars of music on that first take that were very tight, everybody was in a very nice groove on it. So we duplicated those 16 bars onto another multitrack master over and over again and edited them all together. I think there were 60 edits to make up a reel that was 5 minutes long of this 16 bar vamp. I went through a million lyrics in my head. I wrote one song that went 'that's the law of the jungle in the school of the street, you get out of the kitchen if you can't take the heat.' I thought it sounded too much like a Billy Joel song. I wrote another one: 'everyone needs a victim, I believe you will find, when you're cruel to another, when you're cruel to be kind.' Right as I did that, I remembered there was a hit record out called 'Cruel To Be Kind,' so I couldn't use that. Now it's the day before the last scheduled day of recording and I have no lyrics. Because the song is just this steady vamp, I realized that I've got to make the lyrics the focal point of the song because the music is repetitive. I was in my apartment and there was a copy of The Village Voice. Sometimes I look at personal columns to get ideas for songs because people fascinate me. I saw this ad that a woman had placed in which she described herself in such glowing terms that I thought to myself, 'why on earth, if you're this wonderful, do you need to place an ad in the personal columns?' Trying not to be cynical, I thought, 'Let's be fair, maybe she's just looking for an adventure. Maybe she is as wonderful as she says, but she likes the idea of meeting a stranger and seeing what fate has in store for them. She wants something out of the ordinary.' Then I thought to myself, 'what would happen if I answered this ad,' and I thought 'With my stupid luck, I would answer the ad and find out it had been placed by the woman I was living with, never realizing that she was bored with me. The story sort of took hold of my mind. People always ask me if it was based on something true, and I know they would love to know it was based on a true incident, but it wasn't, it was based on the 'What If' scenario that I conjured up in my mind that evening." The original lyrics said: "If you like Humphrey Bogart and getting caught in the rain." Rupert used a lot of movie references on his previous albums, so he decided to try something else: "I thought, 'What can I substitute?' Well, this woman wants an escape, like she wants to go on vacation to the islands. When you go on vacation to the islands, when you sit on the beach and someone asks you if you'd like a drink, you never order a Budweiser, you don't have a beer. You're on vacation, you want a drink in a hollowed out pineapple with the flags of all nations and a long straw. I thought, 'Let's see, there's Daiquiri, Mai Tai, Pina Colada - I wonder what a Pina Colada tastes like, I've never even had one.' I thought that instead of singing 'If you like Humphrey Bogart,' with the emphasis on 'like,' I could start it a syllable earlier and go 'if you like Pina Coladas.' When Rupert recorded the vocal, he did it just once as a scratch track for his lead guitarist, Dean Bailen. He also ad-libbed a harmony track a third above himself on the chorus, then left the song and came back the next day to record the proper vocal. When he came back to do the perfect vocal, he could not get the energy, excitement and enthusiasm he had singing it that one time straight through. Rupert: "I said, 'These other vocals are more correct, but they're not as much fun. I was having fun when I sang that through. I was kind of making up the phrasing as I sang it and it had more spontaneity, more energy.' Jim Boyer, who was doing the album with me, agreed, and that became the vocal. When you hear The Pina Colada song, the story was written the night before, the line 'If you like Pina Coladas' was invented about 5 minutes before I started actually singing, and the vocal you hear is the first time I ever sang the song, and that became the vocal you hear on the record." Rupert thought a song called "Him" should be the first single from the album, but the record label liked this and convinced Rupert that they should release it first. They got it played on a radio station in Washington, and people started calling in to the station asking for it. The problem was that they were asking for "The Pina Colada Song" and the official title was "Escape." This hurt sales because people would ask for "That song about Pina Coladas" at record stores and the stores had no idea what they were talking about. The record label wanted to change the title to "Escape (The Pina Colada Song)" and told Rupert it wouldn't sell if they didn't. Rupert replied, "I guess it's The Pina Colada Song." Holmes: "The record vaulted up the charts. WABC-AM, which never played anything until it was top 5 everywhere else in the nation, played the record when it was #60 in Billboard with a bullet (meaning the song is rising in the chart). It was jumping sometimes 15, 20 points a week and by December of 1979 it was a #1 record, and it was also a #1 record in January of 1980, so I can honestly say that it was at the top of the Billboard charts for 2 decades without interruption." Before this became a hit, there weren't many places you could get a Pina Colada in the US. After this came out, you could get Pina Coladas just about anywhere. "If I had ever known that was going to be the song that I'd be most associated with, I might have had second thoughts about a lot of it. It was never meant to be heard 100 million times, it was meant to be a little short story with a little wink at the end of it." This has been used or referred to in many movies and TV shows, including Shrek, The Sweetest Thing (Cameron Diaz sings it), American Splendor, The General's Daughter, Will And Grace, Six Feet Under and The Simpsons. This Songfact is a Visual. Holmes: "Everyone has in their mind what a bar called O'Mally's looks like. I have one in my mind and that's where it came from. There's an O'Mally's bar near where I live, but I didn't discover there was such a bar until after I'd written the song. It could have been O'Grady's. Everyone knows an Irish bar where people might meet each other, and I'd like to think that the one you envision is different than the one I envision. There was no specific O'Mally's." At the end of this song, the man answers the personal ad and discovers it was placed by his wife. When asked what happens to the couple, Rupert said, "I like to think that they looked at each other with chagrin and realized that before either one of them runs off to find some fantasy that probably doesn't exist in reality, they might reinvestigate their own relationship because there's a lot there they haven't yet explored. I think it's a happy ending with a footnote. They both are a little shocked, but neither can point the finger too hard at the other because they both were willing to try a new relationship and happily, their possible indiscretion led them to each other again." (Thanks to Rupert Holmes for speaking with us about this song. To learn more about Rupert, check out "
-- from Song

Isn't that great?! I love this song because it is a great reminder, that you can't spend your whole life thinking about what you are missing... because it might just turn out that all you need to do is appreciate what is in front of you. I know that I could stand to see that more. I'm always spending time on what is to come... when really I should spend more time on all the great things in my life now.

Plus, I too love making love at midnight, and getting caught in the rain, the feel of the ocean, and the taste of champagne... and i love pina coladas... ;-)

Let's Escape


long weekend

Well, contrary to weatherman belief, today was a pretty nice day. Sunny, and mild out. This weekend was beautiful! Unfortunately I had to spend it working. Not horrible... the History Institute when off without a hitch... but hard when it was so nice outside and I had to be inside. Plus putting in about 2-3 hours Friday night (after normal work hours), 13 hours Saturday, and 5 hours Sunday... just makes for a long weekend.

Saturday I spent some time walking around outdoors at the American College, where we hold our History Institutes, and their grounds are just gorgeous. The grounds there are technically a tree presserve... so it is just lush and full of great colors and smells. Plus they have a koi pond, and a stream that runs through, with little stone bridges. I actually requested info on having a wedding/reception there. We will see...

This morning I got to sleep in some... woke up on my own about 7:40, which was nice not having the alarm blaring in my ear, but instead coming out of sleep gradually. I relaxed for a while and then headed into work, getting here around 11:15. So my day was shorter, but it still managed to take forever.

(Random side note: Stella, if you are reading this... you need to update your journal!!! If you have time to read mine, you have time to write in yours!!! :-) Loves!)

Okay, just looked at the clock and realized its time to go home... so maybe i will write more later....


and the crowd rejoices

Greeting, on this sunny and warm spring day. Not so warm as, say, Arizona (exactly two weeks!)... but very nice nonetheless. Tomorrow is supposed to be in the 70s, and I can't wait for it to cross that little barrier.

Well, today is a rather super stressful day at work, with our big History Institute coming up this weekend... well, it can get frustrating to say the least. But I don't want to even think about those details, let alone write about them. Instead anti-work matters.

Well lets see, if you actually took the time to read the survey in my last message (which if I hadn't been the one to do it, I don't think I would have made it thru)... you probably figured out that we did in fact get our house! Very exciting, a little scary, but either way, a HUGE relief. No more searching, no more wondering... now we just have to get thru the inspections, the mortgage stuff, and the next 24 days until closing, and then the house is officially ours!! Another month after that and we will be officially done with our current apartment, all moved in, and ready to face the next challenge (probably wedding planning).
I can't even put into words how much I can't wait for this month to be over... and to a lesser degree, the following month as well. But it is still very exciting.

On a different note, I've had the weirdest feelings lately about different friends/people. There is this person, whom I've always thought was a very good friend... but lately it feels like she doesn't want to talk to me, and is almost avoiding me. Not in person avoiding me, as she lives several hours away... but if I call she's always busy, or if I leave a message, she'll answer through one mutual friend or another instead of just calling me back directly. (Just to clarify, I call maybe once a week... just so you don't think its because I'm pestering her constantly... ;-) not a stalker... lol.) I find it a bit weird, and unsettling. I'm not sure if I should say anything, or just let it go for now and see if maybe it will just pass. I've noticed that it has effected me in other ways as well... I've been a bit more sensitive to my interactions with other people. If someone is busy, I start to worry that they just don't want to talk to me... or if they don't include me in a conversation, I think they are trying to be rude. But at least I realize that that is what I am doing, and I know that those other people aren't out to get me!! With those individuals, I realize that it is just being too sensitive, and I am able to ... not "hide my feelings", but deal with them myself, and make them go away... without the other person even realizing. With this one friend however, I'm just not so sure.

Well, anyway... can't really think of much else right now. So time for a walk. I really need some sun and fresh air, and time away from the office (at least for 15 minutes or so). I think after this walk I will feel a lot more relaxed and clear headed.